tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post5057166822890193340..comments2023-11-19T00:51:07.717-08:00Comments on It's MY LIFE: The Summer Dating DiariesKristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05711556288937525361noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-40863460740943762372012-07-11T18:36:05.427-07:002012-07-11T18:36:05.427-07:00You made me smile with the "open and optimist...You made me smile with the "open and optimistic" comment. :) Thanks for the good luck, but I think it's already fizzled. Ah well.Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05711556288937525361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-88759526690974538272012-07-11T18:34:38.172-07:002012-07-11T18:34:38.172-07:00Thanks for sharing your dating experience and the ...Thanks for sharing your dating experience and the experience of meeting your husband. Actually means a lot for me to hear right now! In part, your experience validates my belief in the importance of physical chemistry... and that true, deeper love takes time to build and discover.Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05711556288937525361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-35533131929414212512012-07-11T18:31:56.578-07:002012-07-11T18:31:56.578-07:00Where do you live? You're so cute, I would be...Where do you live? You're so cute, I would bet you'd have lots of interested men! I do know that when I got to 40 and still definitely wanted a child, my interested candidates dropped way down. I often am the one who contacts the men I end up going out with... and I get turned down a lot!Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05711556288937525361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-22209246724174748572012-07-10T13:10:50.987-07:002012-07-10T13:10:50.987-07:00Okay I have a ton of Match stories of the guy NOT ...Okay I have a ton of Match stories of the guy NOT looking like his picture. It's a nightmare!<br /><br />Good for you getting all these dates and putting yourself out there. <br /><br />I stopped dating when I started TTC but now I am trying to date again and I have had ZERO luck on Match so far! Not one date!<br /><br />I don't know how you do it but BRAVO!!Michaelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10618189040042084629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-142744211208498702012-07-10T09:54:21.181-07:002012-07-10T09:54:21.181-07:00Good for you for putting yourself out there - that...Good for you for putting yourself out there - that's the toughest part.<br /><br />As far as online dating goes - it's scary and tough, but it can work out. I met my husband through a dating site. I had met a few other guys first, and a couple of them turned out to be complete duds. One guy I met seemed perfect on the phone. We had amazing chemistry and I thought "omg, this is it!!". We went out for drinks and the chemistry was flat. He was a nice guy, and we clicked in terms of friendship, but it was like talking with my brother. There was nothing there at all! We actually continued to go out and just hang out - we both said at the end of that first date that we both felt nothing, but liked hanging out. We became great friends and he introduced me to another friend of his - a woman he eventually married and we became great friends too.<br /><br />When I met my husband it wasn't instant love. I don't really believe that's possible. I need more than a physical connection for love. There was instant chemistry though and we definitely enjoyed each other's company. <br /><br />Oh and I totally get the smell thing too. Pheromones are very real and how someone smells can definitely affect how we interact with them.peghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01864584121635753142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-82320542123757380582012-07-10T02:58:12.987-07:002012-07-10T02:58:12.987-07:00Well dating really is a big challenge. Like you I ...Well dating really is a big challenge. Like you I have been out of the dating game for a long time. And the times certainly have changed quite a bit.Dating Womenhttp://singlemiddleagedguys.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-52172593623317344502012-07-09T20:39:49.874-07:002012-07-09T20:39:49.874-07:00I understand what you mean about the smell thing (...I understand what you mean about the smell thing (though I'm sure it sounds weird to some people)! Too bad that Mr. Britain didn't smell so good. :(<br /><br />As for love at first sight, I did not experience that with J and have never experienced with it anyone else. I'm sure it happens for some people; people who are extremely open and optimistic, which I am not. <br /><br />Good luck with New Cute Guy!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14101535107377688458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1906927928773766239.post-60471309685627228272012-07-09T19:36:22.835-07:002012-07-09T19:36:22.835-07:00Dating is a challenge. What am I saying? Heck, m...Dating is a challenge. What am I saying? Heck, meeting someone is a challenge. I have not been on a date in about a decade. :-( Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com