11/13/2013

It's Over

S and I have broken up. He was the one to officially end it yesterday, on the phone, on his way out of town for a training. Because we have been fighting so much for so long now, it wasn't shocking, but didn't see it coming at that time. I'm sad but also feel some relief.  I think it's interesting that this affirmation came to me two days before we broke up:  "My relationship is stable and relatively calm, and is filled with love, compassion, and understanding."
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  1. NellNovember 13, 2013 at 8:24 AM

    I am sorry for the stress. I hope that the affirmation and your strong nature keeps your moving forward. :-)

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  2. UnknownNovember 13, 2013 at 11:04 AM

    I'm sorry it's over. I can understand the releif...the past few weeks must have been majorly stressful. I really hope this next chapter takes you to a good place.

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  3. AliNovember 13, 2013 at 4:10 PM

    Sorry to hear that, but hope that it is better for both of you now.

    Maybe the affirmation was referring to the relationship you have with yourself rather than the relationship with S?

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    1. KristinaNovember 13, 2013 at 10:22 PM

      Thanks, Ali... maybe, but actually I was thinking the power of the affirmation (clarity of what I want) pushed our relationship to end, because it couldn't be those things.

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  4. Navigating The RapidsNovember 13, 2013 at 7:49 PM

    I'm so sorry Kristina, you tried so hard. Take care.

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  5. JennyNovember 14, 2013 at 1:41 PM

    I'm so sorry, Kristina. :( Sending you lots of love. *hugs*

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  6. SunflowerNovember 14, 2013 at 5:46 PM

    Sorry to read this. You really gave it your best and I hope that you find comfort in knowing that. (hugs)

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    1. KristinaNovember 16, 2013 at 2:17 PM

      Thank you, Sunflower. I do find some comfort in that, yes. I appreciate the reflection.

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  7. UnknownNovember 15, 2013 at 6:41 AM

    I hope that there is better for you to come, in fact I'm sure there is! All our relationships teach us things, and we can go on to be smarter, and to more meaningful, better suited relationships <3

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    1. KristinaNovember 16, 2013 at 2:16 PM

      Thank you, Sabrina, that is helpful to hear right now. <3

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  8. ShannonNovember 15, 2013 at 6:32 PM

    I'm so sorry, Kristina. You gave it your all...wish it could have gone differently for you both.

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