My friend was supposed to come help me pack up my room today, but she got food poisoning and had to cancel. :( So, I suppose I should jump into the task myself, but that's why I welcomed her help - because it's easier to accomplish with moral support (and a kick in the butt). The move date of October 3rd is fast approaching!
I did spend several hours today making my famous "Eggplant Enchiladas" from the Moosewood Cookbook, as well as cooking up a few potatoes I had in the fridge into a yummy onion/garlic/cheese/mushroom potato skillet dish. Taking a break and then going to work out. I have been going three times a week pretty consistently.
Yesterday, I finally bought a decent yoga-type workout shirt and pants, so I don't feel so ratty. I also bought a short-sleeve t-shirt dress with lightweight leather-type material (pleather?) on the sleeves, which I think will look cute with my boots. I so rarely buy clothes these days, it felt good to get something new.
On Thursday, I took Zoey over to the new house to meet J (my new housemate) and start getting a feel for the place. The two dogs - one belonging to J and one to his boyfriend - stayed in the backyard. We are trying to do things incrementally, so the next step will be to meet one or both of the dogs on neutral territory like a park and/or on a walk. Honestly, I am pretty anxious about it. Even though I've had Zoey for a couple years now, I am no expert on dog behavior, and she hasn't spent much time socializing with other dogs. She loves people, but the experiences she's had meeting dogs on walks have been mixed. Sometimes great and other times, she gets jumpy and they bark. The worst instance was with another Boston who started growling and then they tangled up leashes and went 'round and 'round in circles growling/snarling. I thought they were going to kill each other but no biting actually happened. Oh and then I tried to arrange a playdate with another male Boston and Zoey growled and snarled at him when he got up in her space. I've since learned I shouldn't have introduced them on her "turf," and also this dog was a scrappy-looking rescue dog who lived with two pit-bulls, so I don't think his behavior was great.
Anyway, I feel so responsible for her and don't want her hurt in anyway. But I don't think my anxiety helps the situation sometimes! At least we are trying to be conscious and follow the "expert's" advice on how to introduce dogs for the first time. Fingers crossed! I think if she is able to acclimate with the other dogs, it could be really fun for her to have playmates.
On the people front, J and I went to a play together a week or so ago, as well as talking more during the Thursday visit... Remember what I said about him being an actor and extrovert and sometimes dominating the conversation? Well, it has unfortunately been the case. He is a really sweet guy and has had a hard time with his partner passing away last year. But I am not really interested in being a "groupie" or playing his audience all the time, you know? He seems to love to "hold court" and expound on any number of subjects, seeking attention and sympathy whenever possible.
When I was there Thursday, he asked about a date I had the week prior, and I had just begun to share about it when he jumped in and started talking about how he and his partner met in their church community and why it was such a great way to meet, etc. I tried to pick up the thread I had started to talk about when he interrupted again with a raised voice and further explained his point of view. Argh! I'm trying to cut him slack because I imagine any talk about dating and relationships might bring up intense feelings for him around the loss of his partner, but I do like to be heard and seen in a conversation, as well. Not sure if he will be around enough - as mentioned, he will be spending a lot of time at his new partner's house - but I may need to make a request of some sort if it continues? We will see, but it was the first time I felt a twinge of nervous "Buyer's Remorse" about my new living situation...
Off to work out! Hope you are all enjoying your Saturdays!