1/15/2021

15-Months-Old

Christmas was nice, overall. We spent Christmas Eve at my Dad and his fiancee's house, and Christmas at my sister's, as expected. Ellie is the only little kid in the family, but my littlest niece gets pretty excited, too (she's six). Ellie was an active participant this year, walking around, sort of opening presents, and exploring, not a bump on a log, sitting in her car seat. She sure keeps us on our toes now! 

We did stockings at our own house, which is a nice tradition to keep with going forward. Favorite gifts included a Bouncy Bee and a Little People Farm from family friends and Mommy and Daddy's gift of a Fisher Price Noah's Arc (I had one I loved to play with as a child, so this is nostalgic :). Bipa (my Dad) got her/us a Bob stroller; yaaaayyy!! In Oregon's wet weather, those big wheels really come in handy.

Ellie turned 15 months on January 10th! She is so much fun. She now practices walking a lot and can walk backwards, spin in circles, and crawl up and down our stairs (with mom or dad right behind her at this point!). She still loves books and “reads” them on her own, flipping through all the pages. She brings us books to read sometimes now and we read to her at least two or three times a day, including her special bedtime books. 

I recently bought her a few new books, including Llama Llama, Red Pajama. So cute! She makes sad, sympathetic sounds when little Llama is missing his Mama. She even cried once or twice when Llama was calling loudly for his Mama, so RC and I had to make our voices less dramatic and more calm at that part. Thinking that might be related to some developmental step around empathy or relating to book characters more or something?

We took her to her 15-month doctor's appointment last Monday, and the nurse gave her four shots. Boo. She cried, of course, but recovered well. She's around the 80th percentile in head circumference and weight and in the 50th percentile in height. I think she is a strong little girl, and that affects weight, but, also, we are still breastfeeding. 

Crazy to be breastfeeding at this point - and I would never have predicted it - but it's true. I have read that it's recommended women stop breastfeeding by 16 months because babies (I guess they are "tabies" at this point. lol) get more attached to it at that point. Do you all have any thoughts or advice? I admit I still mostly enjoy it, and it can be a nice bonding time together - not to mention an easy and efficient way to comfort her when there is an immediate need. 

On a different, bigger picture, note...crazy events going down at the Capital last week. RC and I have been glued to CNN off and on over the last nine days, and the time is slowly ticking down to the inauguration next Wednesday. From a psychological perspective, I'm fascinated by the back stories, and the sociopolitical dynamics that led up the this scary and terrible event. But on an emotional, human level, I'm horrified this happened and grateful that it wasn't worse. Several people lost their lives, though, and it seems so sad and pointless. I do hope that the silver lining is Trump will be out of the Republican Party and out of politics for good. Stay safe everyone, sending love and good wishes!

p.s. I'm about to enter the world of toddler sensory bins. We don't have a Flisat or sensory table, but, as of today, I have purchased a couple of bins, rainbow rice, corn starch, beans, and various tools for manipulating the materials and for hiding. I'll let you know how it goes soon.

p.p.s. I missed delurking week, but I would love to hear from anyone who is reading. It is encouraging to me. Thank you!


6 comments:

  1. Cute pictures -- isn't it crazy how quickly they grow? I breastfed both of my kids past 16 months. My daughter actually nursed until she was 5 - primarily at night because she loved it. I loved the connection and it was easy to calm her down. It drove my husband crazy! My son nursed until he was about 18 months old and then one day decided he was done. I wouldn't worry too much about the 16 month thing -- in fact this is the first time I had heard that. Do what is right for you and your babe.

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  2. I enjoy your blog! Sensory tables are nice. But you have to watch her like a hawk. Rice and beans (although not dangerous if eaten) will end up in her mouth, nose or in my case digging a pinto bean out of a 25 month old child's ear!

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  3. I have four children, and I nursed them all until they were about 15 months for the exact reason the nurse described--I was worried that they would get increasingly hard to wean, and I did not want a fight over weaning, nor to nurse them until they were 2.5 or 3. If you like nursing, and don't mind conceivably nursing for that long, then have at it! If you don't want to, then I'd consider weaning now. (To that end, I also got rid of bottles and pacifiers by this age, and potty trained by 22 months so I didn't have to fight stubborn two year olds on any of it.)

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    1. I appreciate you sharing your experience! I’m not sure what I’ll do yet, but leaning towards weaning soon. Wondering if it changed your feeling of connection to them? I worry a little about that. Nice job with the potty training! That will be coming up before we know it.

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  4. Loved the post and pic. Such a cute age. Its great that she loves books. I am super impressed that you are still BF. I was unable to get beyond 6 mos :-(

    There is a website I used with Beanie that tells you about development leaps - Wonder Weeks. For some reason I thought of it while reading your post. It really helped me anticipate growth spurts and such. I really liked using it. Thought I would share.

    Yes its bee crazy times, but hopefully now things will be better. Sorry I have not been very responsive - my cat had a lot of heath issues the past month.

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    1. Thanks, Sunflower! Yes, I have the Wonder Weeks app. It is definitely cool to see when she’s in a growth time/leap. I’m sorry to hear about your kitty’s health issues - is she okay now?

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